Friday, December 19, 2008

First Steps for Saving Money

It is a rare person who can say they have enough money. Most of us believe a little (or a lot) more money would help life to be easier, problems to be solved, and more joy to be present in our lives. To have this extra money we either need to make more than we already do, or spend less than we are presently spending.
Often, spending less is the quicker way to have some extra money show up. But this requires some self-control and, as the psychologists put it, the ability to “delay gratification.”

Such self-control can be learned by almost everyone. However, it requires the conquering of the “itch” to buy things right now. If you can embark on a program of retraining your brain to save for future payoffs, then you can beat the “itch” and have abundance in your finances.

Unfortunately, we can so easily fall into fulfilling our immediate desires. If we get a bonus, inheritance, or even Friday’s paycheck, we often give in to the irresistible urge to splurge on anything we lay our eyes on. What a dangerous mistake! We squander the future for today’s appetites.

What is shiny and new today often fades by tomorrow. The trinkets pass into meaninglyness, the electronic doodads become outdated, and the expensive meals are consumed and forgotten. If only we could practice some patience and self-control, realizing and thinking about the really important things that might value in the future.

We might like to have the down payment on a mortgage, or the ability to take a longer vacation, or just the peace of mind of having a rainy day fund. This kind of financial success begins with our conscious effort to control our expenditures and save rather than spend.

So, how do we begin to learn the self-control, saving process? There are many ways that people take for granted. Here’s a list to get you started. These items might seem impossible, but they aren’t. I see people learn from them everyday.

1. For a week, assign yourself to be aware of each and every purchase. Decide whether it is a purchase that is based on impulse or prior planning. When in balance, there is nothing wrong with impulse buying, however, if you wish to save money, this is the place to start. When you notice the impulse, ask yourself if you will regret in the future not having saved this money.

2. Identify your needs and wants. A need is something that is basic to survival: food clothing, shelter, medical and dental care, and information like this on how to be successful in life. A want is something that is about more than just survival. It is something that gives you joy. Needs always come first, but we need to meet a few wants or life becomes rather dull.

3. Look for a person who can serve as a role model for you. Adopt a financial lifestyle similar to what this person does. It’s much easier to practice self-control and delayed gratification when you see it practiced by someone you respect.

This is just a beginning, but what a great start! If you can do just these three things, you're well on your way to some extra money in your bank account.

Steve Roberts is a Marriage & Family Therapist.
He's been helping Families cope with everyday life
for over 20 years.
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Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Budget Travel - Season and Destination are Most Important

We all need some time out of our busy work schedules. Taking a travel package would be the best way to invigorate and unwind. Enjoying a vacation is the best way to spend a great time with family and simplest way to connect with yourself and your family.

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Create your individual tour
Once you decide to take a trip, you need to gather all relevant travel information for having a good time. If you prefer a planned an organized holiday, you can book yourself with a travel package. In this system, you can enjoy visiting in a group and let others to handle all the details of tour package. There are many tour operators who can provide you enticing trips for providing you a great time. Adventurous people can choose packages that include multi-day hiking, trekking and river trips. Experience some of the exciting moments of having complete fun and entertainment with like-minded people.

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Plan your trip:
If you don’t like someone else to guide you to enjoy your vacations, then you can make your plans. Start looking through internet and decide on a place that can refresh your senses. Savvy tourists can make their plans in much economical cost. Plan carefully and make proper arrangement for enjoying the trip.

Read guide books of the concerned area to get all the details on the chosen destination. You can get useful information via internet so they you can make plans accordingly. Once you make plans, you will need to look for a local travel agent. A local guide can help you to visit all important sights of a place. A guide will help you to find an affordable lodging and shopping places to complete your trip. Also, a guide will tell you the historical importance of the chosen place.